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I’ve found rejecting the tendency to reduce people to narratives so incredibly important with our children.

Whether their latest choice has been probably good or probably bad, keeping those choices as something they did rather than something they are keeps the future open for them.


This reminds me of a Chinese farmer story:

"The whole process of nature is an integrated process of immense complexity, and it’s really impossible to tell whether anything that happens in it is good or bad - because you never know what will be the consequence of the misfortune; or, you never know what will be the consequences of good fortune." ~ Alan Watts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sWd6fNVZ20o


People are also multifaceted.

My dad was a pretty great dad, but when he split with my mom he did some pretty dick moves.

I have no trouble to simultaneously hold those two facets in my mind when my mom rants about him.


Technically, voting shares went to the trust, common shares went to an associated nonprofit. 100% between them.


This is close to three months, and many health plans renew at the beginning of each year, which accounts for the slight difference.


Almost anything smaller than a breadbox. I’m not trying to be flippant, but those are better starting conditions than I had for the moderately profitable craft kit or outdoor product manufacturing businesses I’ve run. Inventory is more likely to constrain your space than equipment, and power supply is more likely to constrain your equipment than budget.


Something I’ve found helpful: imagine you were starting from scratch today. Is this still THE problem you would want to work on? If not, move on. You’re right that 6 mo is not a lot in the grand scheme of things. Sunk costs suck, but there’s no getting them back.

If it’s still a good problem, then maybe your cofounder is right and the solution you were working on won’t solve it. If he’s the tech guy and you’re the business guy, I would assume you’ve done more of the talking to customers, but maybe there’s a tech challenge he sees. Worth investigating.

Strongly suggest against getting wrapped up in cofounder conflicts - that definitely doesn’t solve a problem.

If this is THE problem you want to work on, and you think your solution was headed in the right direction, modern no-code tools like Bubble make developing an MVP doable for a nontechnical founder. Depending on exactly what you’re building, something even simpler like a newsletter or some Google Forms integrations can do it.


I've been thinking a lot about running this using no-code and/or simple Google tools...thanks for mentioning that, and the avoidance of the co-founder conflict is probably the most echoed advice in this chain, so I will keep that in mind as I handle this.


This only appears to be the case for https://news.ycombinator.com/news. None of the other pages or the index without the /news path.


Well done - I’m working on something broadly similar for similar reasons. How do eventually plan to monetize to keep it ad-free?


You can get Pro and that gives larger quality images and the ability to upload files like videos. It also gives larger content, but over time I will allow others to make longer content also. Just need to get some real usage under the belt to see what kind of resources it uses up.

https://wave.hey.cafe/pro


Join a makerspace if you live near a substantial one. Mine (Protohaven in Pittsburgh) has both a CNC mill and a Morgan injection molder (a rare small injection molder good for 100s of parts), which is a nice way of exploring some tech before buying it. Even more valuable are the people who hang out at these places, who have probably done the things you’re considering.


For those looking for more support (or criticism) for this way of thinking, the reasoning behind the priority view is quite similar to John Rawls’ arguments that people would adopt a maximin (making the least good outcome as good as possible) strategy when behind the “veil of ignorance” (imagining setting up a society in which you don’t know how advantaged or disadvantaged you’ll be). Here’s more: https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/original-position/


I’ve found http://ui-patterns.com/patterns to be particularly useful. The patterns both show you how others solve common design problems, and give you the vocabulary to meaningfully talk and find additional information about them.


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