Whenever you appeal to anecdata, you might want to pause a moment and check for actual data. Turns out that no, wealth alignment is likely one of the largest factors for finding a partner[1] and the number of couples with similar wealth is increasing [2].
"Relationships with two tigers often don't last because they can't stop fighting and few people tolerate that kind of constant emotional discomfort."
And no, most relationships aren't divided in "controlling" and "controllable" either. In fact, that's a pretty good predictor for partner violence. [3]
Whenever you appeal to anecdata, you might want to pause a moment and check for actual data. Turns out that no, wealth alignment is likely one of the largest factors for finding a partner[1] and the number of couples with similar wealth is increasing [2].
"Relationships with two tigers often don't last because they can't stop fighting and few people tolerate that kind of constant emotional discomfort."
And no, most relationships aren't divided in "controlling" and "controllable" either. In fact, that's a pretty good predictor for partner violence. [3]
[1] https://academic.oup.com/sf/advance-article-abstract/doi/10....
[2] https://www.niussp.org/family-and-households/homogamy-among-...
[3] https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/088626051988468...